June 26, 2008

say yes!

this single paragraph by dave eggers has become my edict for life over the past few months. i love it so much and wanted to share it with you.

"What matters is that you do good work. What matters is that you produce things that are true and will stand. What matters is that the Flaming Lips's new album is ravishing and I've listened to it a thousand times already, sometimes for days on end, and it enriches me and makes me want to save people. What matters is that it will stand forever, long after any narrow-hearted curmudgeons have forgotten their appearance on goddamn 90210. What matters is not the perception, nor the fashion, not who's up and who's down, but what someone has done and if they meant it. What matters is that you want to see and make and do, on as grand a scale as you want, regardless of what the tiny voices of tiny people say. Do not be critics, you people, I beg you. I was a critic and I wish I could take it all back because it came from a smelly and ignorant place in me, and spoke with a voice that was all rage and envy. Do not dismiss a book until you have written one, and do not dismiss a movie until you have made one, and do not dismiss a person until you have met them. It is a f--kload of work to be open-minded and generous and understanding and forgiving and accepting, but Christ, that is what matters. What matters is saying yes."

so here's to saying YES! to things that scare us--to risks in life, love, art, and everything.

2 comments:

ashmae said...

i love this!!!! thank you.

Lia said...

so i copy/pasted this into my journal the night you sent this to me, and have referred to it constantly ever since. thank you, dave eggers and amy scott, for making this a part of my life. we must say yes.